After lunch and pedicures with Jasmin, we headed over to the memorial for one of my former classmates and friends. I knew some of the people that would be attending and wanted to see them. I also had fond memories of Brian.
We went to middle and high school together. We shared latin and one year of being band nerds. I moved on after our trip to Orlando and focused on school, work and finding a way out of Salina. He continued with band and a different path than mine. We both ended up in Lawrence for college. He was one of my best friend's roommates in an off campus apartment. Like me, we wanted to live off campus instead of in a dorm or sorority. After that first year, we drifted apart. I was always consumed by work and creating my departure from Kansas. He had friends, other interests and ultimately, a different path. We lost touch and eventually found our commonality on social media. I could stalk his photos and see what he was interested in in a very public way. Returning for his memorial it was nice to look through his childhood photos. I am a sucker for family photos. So much innocence and camaraderie. Of course, there were senior photos and photos of his life. I arrived later than anticipated and interrupted part of the speeches. It was nice to listen but I wasn't interested in contributing to the stories in a public forum. That is not really my thing. I remember when my Brian died and letting his friend/boss speak. Marc was charismatic and had the best stories of Brian. He was compassionate and illustrated some of Brian's essence. Afterwards, they opened it up to anyone else that wanted to say something. Quickly, it declined into weirdness and randomness. This one lady spoke of how kind Brian was for always returning her lighter. It seemed odd and pointless and we cut people off and concluded the speaking portion. I didn't speak that day. I don't think I would have done it any differently either.
After people were finished speaking, we broke up into small groups, naturally, and caught up. That was interesting. One guy immediately approached me and wanted to know what I had been doing for the past 10 years. I responded that I bartend. He goes--really? You were the smartest person in our class, I thought you would be doing something else.
I didn't really know how to respond. When I was younger, I thought I would be a lawyer. I have a great life and it is unconventional. It's not traditional or what is considered success in some people's minds. Initially, I was pissed that I would be judged in such a manner. But, then I forgave him as he has not changed. He has always had turrets. Speaking first thinking later. I have a few other examples from last Saturday that would support this belief.
Another guy I ran into I have known since kindergarten. It was great to see him and see where life has taken him. He was a quiet introverted guy all through school. He has blossomed into a rambunctious lover of life. He is a pilot and travels the world. It was wonderful talking to him. I wish I had had more time to catch up with him.
I am glad that I made the effort to return to Kansas. Next time might be longer or for happier circumstances. I know that I will see Jennifer in the next few months. She is one of my childhood friends that I do see on a fairly regular basis. I am grateful for that.
I am off to dog sit, attend a barre class and greet the day! Until next time---cheers!
Saturday, July 15, 2017
Friday, July 14, 2017
midwest trip
Vacation to the Midwest was successful. Of course, it was not long enough. I would have preferred another day to spend time with my niece, Emma or more time with my high school friends. I woke up on Thursday and headed east to Omaha. I have made driven this road, before, but I am not nearly as familiar with it as driving thru Kansas. I called my dad to let him know that I would be arriving in a few hours and that, yes, I had directions to his house compliments of gps. Ironically, I realized that I had put in Omaha as my location instead of his actual address. I texted him to ask him for the address about twenty minutes from Lincoln. I veered off to put gas in my car and potty and ended up in a 25 minute departure from my arrival plan. Next time, I know, to stop at main exits and not head into small towns that I am unfamiliar with, lol.
My dad's house is comfortable with a large backyard. I enjoyed spending time with him and his wife. They are well suited--similar outlooks on life and personality. We drank a few beers before meeting her daughter for dinner. They chose a cute Italian place nearby. It was nice and the best part of the restaurant were the half price bottles of wine deal offered on Thursdays. Of course, they let me choose the wine! I loved that part. We took dessert with us and had bailey's and coffee at home. All, in all, it was a quick lovely visit. I woke up, early, on Friday and headed south to Lawrence. I had two options to arrive in a timely fashion. I could take the interstate through K.C. or a highway to Topeka. My dad and Joyce both preferred the two lane highway. They claimed it was a straight shot and good road. Getting out of Omaha was a little challenging since I didn't have service at my dad's house. I didn't want to return to ask him how to get to the interstate so I drove around til I managed to find a gas station. I thought I would go old school. Armed with a map, I was prepared to ask an attendant the best way to 1-80. Thankfully, my service returned and I was able to be guided to the highway. There was some construction which was annoying. I followed 1-75 south and missed a turn, somehow. I found myself entering Iowa, lol. Thankfully, I knew that was incorrect and found my mistake quickly.
The road was fine for the most part. There was more traffic than I imagined and of course, people that were unwilling to follow the rules of the road. If you are not going the speed limit, do not drive in the left lane. Moreover, when you are gifted a truck lane *which opens up the road to two lanes and enables passing* please either get over if you have no intention of passing or drive with the flow of traffic. Do not continue to drive slow and follow the car in front of you. It was frustrating to only be able to pass in the right zone and drive behind people that are unfit to drive. I managed to make it to Lawrence with a few minutes to spare. I had a lunch date with a friend from college. Julie had not changed at all. I last saw her in 2009 on another visit to Lawrence. She now has two girls and we caught up on our families. I knew all of her brothers and she knows my sisters. We all attended her wedding in Lawrence. Always fun to see her and catch up! And dining at Free State is always a treat. I saw three people that I used to work with back when I was in college.
Afterwards, I drove to Manhattan. Quick drive and I made it to Jasmin's house fairly easily. I was surprised that her daughter was not there. I had hoped to spend the weekend with my niece. I had hoped that Jasmin would be able to convince her ex that Emma should spend the weekend with us. It was nice to see Mason, my nephew, and also spend a little extra time with Jasmin. We got pedicures and had lunch at a Mexican place in Manhattan. I wanted to try a new restaurant in the Little Apple and the only qualification was I wanted wine. Jasmin mentioned a Mexican restaurant a few times and so I knew she was interested in chips and salsa.
I forgot to mention my yoga class and the farmer's market I found on Saturday morning. I have been to the yoga studio on a prior visit and so I knew where it was and that it was a clean and welcoming space. Upon arrival, I checked in to my class and greeted who I thought was the instructor. This girl was fiddling with the music and so I approached her about props. She directed me to a very pregnant girl who would be leading the class. Initially, I was anxious that the class would suck (honestly) and then was pleasantly surprised when it was decent. Better than decent. Better than the majority of classes I have attended in Denver. It was challenging, mindful and had great music. I was happy.
I had driven by a farmer's market on the way to yoga and so I stopped before returning to Jasmin's house. I wanted to scope the produce and find coffee and maybe a breakfast burrito. That is one reason I enjoy perusing farmer's markets. This one was full of produce, some goods, but no coffee. I was surprised that there wasn't a pop up coffee stand. They did have beignets, though. I purchased some for Chris. I also found beets, tomatoes and sweet corn. I thought the corn would be a nice addition for our bbq that night. It was.
I will conclude this for now. I have a training session to mentally prepare for. Ahh...Fridays!
My dad's house is comfortable with a large backyard. I enjoyed spending time with him and his wife. They are well suited--similar outlooks on life and personality. We drank a few beers before meeting her daughter for dinner. They chose a cute Italian place nearby. It was nice and the best part of the restaurant were the half price bottles of wine deal offered on Thursdays. Of course, they let me choose the wine! I loved that part. We took dessert with us and had bailey's and coffee at home. All, in all, it was a quick lovely visit. I woke up, early, on Friday and headed south to Lawrence. I had two options to arrive in a timely fashion. I could take the interstate through K.C. or a highway to Topeka. My dad and Joyce both preferred the two lane highway. They claimed it was a straight shot and good road. Getting out of Omaha was a little challenging since I didn't have service at my dad's house. I didn't want to return to ask him how to get to the interstate so I drove around til I managed to find a gas station. I thought I would go old school. Armed with a map, I was prepared to ask an attendant the best way to 1-80. Thankfully, my service returned and I was able to be guided to the highway. There was some construction which was annoying. I followed 1-75 south and missed a turn, somehow. I found myself entering Iowa, lol. Thankfully, I knew that was incorrect and found my mistake quickly.
The road was fine for the most part. There was more traffic than I imagined and of course, people that were unwilling to follow the rules of the road. If you are not going the speed limit, do not drive in the left lane. Moreover, when you are gifted a truck lane *which opens up the road to two lanes and enables passing* please either get over if you have no intention of passing or drive with the flow of traffic. Do not continue to drive slow and follow the car in front of you. It was frustrating to only be able to pass in the right zone and drive behind people that are unfit to drive. I managed to make it to Lawrence with a few minutes to spare. I had a lunch date with a friend from college. Julie had not changed at all. I last saw her in 2009 on another visit to Lawrence. She now has two girls and we caught up on our families. I knew all of her brothers and she knows my sisters. We all attended her wedding in Lawrence. Always fun to see her and catch up! And dining at Free State is always a treat. I saw three people that I used to work with back when I was in college.
Afterwards, I drove to Manhattan. Quick drive and I made it to Jasmin's house fairly easily. I was surprised that her daughter was not there. I had hoped to spend the weekend with my niece. I had hoped that Jasmin would be able to convince her ex that Emma should spend the weekend with us. It was nice to see Mason, my nephew, and also spend a little extra time with Jasmin. We got pedicures and had lunch at a Mexican place in Manhattan. I wanted to try a new restaurant in the Little Apple and the only qualification was I wanted wine. Jasmin mentioned a Mexican restaurant a few times and so I knew she was interested in chips and salsa.
I forgot to mention my yoga class and the farmer's market I found on Saturday morning. I have been to the yoga studio on a prior visit and so I knew where it was and that it was a clean and welcoming space. Upon arrival, I checked in to my class and greeted who I thought was the instructor. This girl was fiddling with the music and so I approached her about props. She directed me to a very pregnant girl who would be leading the class. Initially, I was anxious that the class would suck (honestly) and then was pleasantly surprised when it was decent. Better than decent. Better than the majority of classes I have attended in Denver. It was challenging, mindful and had great music. I was happy.
I had driven by a farmer's market on the way to yoga and so I stopped before returning to Jasmin's house. I wanted to scope the produce and find coffee and maybe a breakfast burrito. That is one reason I enjoy perusing farmer's markets. This one was full of produce, some goods, but no coffee. I was surprised that there wasn't a pop up coffee stand. They did have beignets, though. I purchased some for Chris. I also found beets, tomatoes and sweet corn. I thought the corn would be a nice addition for our bbq that night. It was.
I will conclude this for now. I have a training session to mentally prepare for. Ahh...Fridays!
Saturday, July 1, 2017
new month and current likes
Hello, July! What a month this will be...more reading, TRX training and some travel. I might be able to maneuver another road trip at some point. Definitely heading to the Midwest next week to see family. It was inspired by a memorial that I had hoped to attend. I wanted to be able to do it in the proper fashion which meant that I would need to take an additional day off from work. Also, that I would arrange a brief stay with my dad in Omaha and my sister in Kansas.
I reached out to my friend, Jennifer, in ABQ to see if she was making the journey back for the memorial. She told me that she was flying into KC for 36 hours or thereabouts. After confirming with my sister that she would be in town, I decided to commit to the trip. From there, I sought out a college friend that lives in Lawrence to see if she would be interested in meeting me for lunch when I drive thru. Everything is falling into place and, I believe, it will be a great quick trip. I wish I had more time to see my friend, Carol, who is in Lindsborg. My return to Denver on Sunday will be early and without much flexibility for time. I work at 3 that day and must be back ready to work.
The personal training is going well. I like my trainer. She pushes me to do more and make mindful choices. I can hear her voice in my head when I am considering eating more cheese, lol. I want to be consistent with my training and think that three sessions a month are adequate. I have been teaching more yoga and will increase the frequency and students. My friend, Danielle, is interested in meeting me for two sessions a week. We celebrated our practice by dining at Fruition last night. What a treat! It's been awhile since I have last dined there. Mostly since there are so many new places that I had wanted to check out. Danielle and I both live near 6th St and so it seemed like a great choice. We wanted wine and a great meal and both needs were met. Danielle is a vegan and so going to Luca seemed out of place and the other spot, I mentioned, was too casual. The wine list is decent but I knew that the food was not what either of us would want.
Our server was great. Very attentive and able to guide us to a lovely meal. The chef created a lovely vegan meal for Danny. The only drawback to the restaurant is the lack of bar or waiting space. I would have loved to have had some bubbles or a cocktail while waiting for our table. Not a huge deal.
I have been reading more and love it. Currently, I seem to enjoy reading about family dynamics. The Nest was interesting and thought provoking. I enjoyed my stint with narcissism by reading Harmony. And, I have read quite a few John Irving books in the last few months. Hilarious and always interesting. I have another one to read but want to take a break from his style for a bit. In the meantime, I have two books to enjoy and several more on hold at the library.
I'm still open to suggestions for my birthday. I am tempted to go to wine and Chile and it is on my birthday week. I looked at rentals and the rates are good and I know that I would enjoy the festival again. But, do I want to spend my time there or go elsewhere? I am still on the fence with it. I could definitely enjoy a three day trip to San Diego. Or a yoga inspired trip to Phoenix. I still have some time before committing to anything.
Yoga, healthy eating and reading will be my focus this summer. I like that it is something different and thought provoking. I spend too much time watching tv and prefer expanding my reading base. Any suggestions are welcome and appreciated! I am off to a yoga class. Hoping this girl incorporates more astanga in her practice today.
I reached out to my friend, Jennifer, in ABQ to see if she was making the journey back for the memorial. She told me that she was flying into KC for 36 hours or thereabouts. After confirming with my sister that she would be in town, I decided to commit to the trip. From there, I sought out a college friend that lives in Lawrence to see if she would be interested in meeting me for lunch when I drive thru. Everything is falling into place and, I believe, it will be a great quick trip. I wish I had more time to see my friend, Carol, who is in Lindsborg. My return to Denver on Sunday will be early and without much flexibility for time. I work at 3 that day and must be back ready to work.
The personal training is going well. I like my trainer. She pushes me to do more and make mindful choices. I can hear her voice in my head when I am considering eating more cheese, lol. I want to be consistent with my training and think that three sessions a month are adequate. I have been teaching more yoga and will increase the frequency and students. My friend, Danielle, is interested in meeting me for two sessions a week. We celebrated our practice by dining at Fruition last night. What a treat! It's been awhile since I have last dined there. Mostly since there are so many new places that I had wanted to check out. Danielle and I both live near 6th St and so it seemed like a great choice. We wanted wine and a great meal and both needs were met. Danielle is a vegan and so going to Luca seemed out of place and the other spot, I mentioned, was too casual. The wine list is decent but I knew that the food was not what either of us would want.
Our server was great. Very attentive and able to guide us to a lovely meal. The chef created a lovely vegan meal for Danny. The only drawback to the restaurant is the lack of bar or waiting space. I would have loved to have had some bubbles or a cocktail while waiting for our table. Not a huge deal.
I have been reading more and love it. Currently, I seem to enjoy reading about family dynamics. The Nest was interesting and thought provoking. I enjoyed my stint with narcissism by reading Harmony. And, I have read quite a few John Irving books in the last few months. Hilarious and always interesting. I have another one to read but want to take a break from his style for a bit. In the meantime, I have two books to enjoy and several more on hold at the library.
I'm still open to suggestions for my birthday. I am tempted to go to wine and Chile and it is on my birthday week. I looked at rentals and the rates are good and I know that I would enjoy the festival again. But, do I want to spend my time there or go elsewhere? I am still on the fence with it. I could definitely enjoy a three day trip to San Diego. Or a yoga inspired trip to Phoenix. I still have some time before committing to anything.
Yoga, healthy eating and reading will be my focus this summer. I like that it is something different and thought provoking. I spend too much time watching tv and prefer expanding my reading base. Any suggestions are welcome and appreciated! I am off to a yoga class. Hoping this girl incorporates more astanga in her practice today.
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